Page 14'Cassiar Courier November 1987 & Reflections By Beth Minty “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31) Some years ago I listened as a friend of mine re- lated important moments in his life which brought him to his present situation. He was “giving his testimony”. Al told us of a time when he was a young government em- ployee. He went to work day after day, put his pencil to the paper and waited. He was waiting for God to move the pencil and show him what to write. Well, if I hadn’t known Al to be a sane well adjusted father of teenagers, I would have thought that he was right out to lunch. Crazy. As it was I had trouble keeping “nuts” and ‘Al’ from forming too close a link in my mind. Al, of course, explained that this isn’t quite what Isaiah had in mind when he exhorted us to “‘wait upon the Lord”. I’m telling you this because of a funny thing that happened to me. You see I believe that God introduces ideas into our minds. C.S. Lewis, in his book “‘Screwtapes Letters”, pictures us with a little angel on one shoulder and a little demon on the other. Both the angel and the demon whisper thoughts to us competing for our atten- tion. Lewis had his tongue in his cheek . . . but he was suggesting, as I believe, that ideas originating from God come into our minds much more frequently than we think they do. My problem is descerning which thoughts are from God. I like to practice recognizing when God “speaks” to me. During the day, and especially while I’m going to sleep and waking up, | test out material that may make good subjects for writing or speaking about. It doesn’t matter to me whether I will ever write or speak about it, I just enjoy pretending that I might. When a topic feels right and it goes somewhere, or says something, then | know I could “‘use”’ that topic. Well, for some crazy reason | chose a new method to pick this month’s Reflections topic. I thought that I would wait until my fingers were on the typewriter keys and let God pop an idea into my head at that time. Then I would be sure to write something I “was meant to write about.’’ As Al before me had found out, it doesn’t always work that way. I placed my fingers on the keys and - ta da - nothing happened. Surprised? Hardly. | started presenting topics to the Lord waiting for Him to ANY K artwind 4 A Special Gift to you at Christmas “give me that “right’’-feeling. J.sat typing. all yesterday .. afternoon, accumulating pages of rubbish, until finally Keith came home for supper and rescued me. (And I thought I was being so clever to trust God to provide a topic for me at the exact moment I asked.) Certainly God can place thought upon thought in our minds and effectively write through us. He did that to write the scriptures. Timothy tells us that the scrip- tures are “God breathed” (2Tim 3:16) I have also heard of cases where pastors have started to preach a prepared sermon only to find that it didn’t “feel right” anymore and that a new topic was urgently presenting itself. These situations are fairly rare. Although there are times when our knowledge and skills are so lacking that God urges us to invite Him to take over, if we could always sit back and allow God to use us like puppets life would lose its spice. We need to learn how to use our abilities. We need to be challenged, and we need to accomplish. When we ask God to help us we also learn about communicating with Him. If God had shown me what to write about yesterday, I wouldn’t have learned anything or accomplished much. It would also have diminished my pleasure in doing the work. You are probably all shaking your heads thinking Beth Minty is a little crazy, just as 1 thought my friend Al was. In that case I want to ask you something. Do you feel inadequate, as I do, when you don’t know what God wants of you? It occurs to me that learning to communi- cate with God is a life time process which is perfected when we come into His presence. Paul explains, “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.” (1Co 13:13) Instant learning is not part of God’s plan for us. We have to expect some doubt, confusion, and failures to be part of learning. “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk and not faint.” So what have I learned . . . that waiting upon the Lord is not waiting for Him to do something for me, but waiting for Him to teach me. I learned that as I seek the Lord’s help to develop the few skills I may have, I also become more aware of His communication with me. Lots of times I have thought, ‘‘Oh Lord, I goof up so often try- ing to interpret what you are putting into my thick head that I want to give up trying.” However, with every step of the way, I learn again that there is a lot more pleasure sticking with God than giving up. I think Al was saying that years ago (when I was too shocked to listen) that the goof-ups, and struggles change to pleasures and content- ment when we stick with God and wait upon His gentle teaching. invite you to LADIES NIGHT Nov. 13th 6 -9 p.m. Shopping only on these nights dig MEN’S NIGHT ONLY Nov. 20th 6-9 p.m. The Clothes Closet 778-7310 Cassiar Hair Design 778-7476 =~Cont. from Page6 fm, JOYCE’S STORY Joyce is also a Maritimer, born in Spring Hill, Nova Scotia on September 29th, 1936. Joyce’s dad was killed in the Second World War, and she and her brother were raised by her maternal grandparents. “] had a great childhood,” recalls Joyce. I was a real tomboy and my older brother was a bookworm. I always fought his battles for him!’”’ One young fellow by the name of Artie Canning received at least one thumping a week from Joyce. ‘My grandfather used to say go get him Joyce, and I did!’ : Involved in sports, Joyce swam, biked, played ball and hockey and loved to dance. “My grandfather was very religious,” says Joyce, “and Sundays were church; morning, noon and night!”’ Joyce tried her best, ‘‘But I was too headstrong!”’ First married at the age of fifteen in Spring Hill in 1952, Joyce found herself the mother of three boys by 1957. “It was a stupid marriage. I was young and foolish, but I loved my boys!” In 1966 Joyce left Spring Hill with her children and headed west on the train. ‘We arrived at Chilliwack, B.C., and I had $2.50 in my pocket and my boys were hungry.” Joyce’s uncle, Lester Archibald, helped her out. She stayed with him for two days - found a job in the Hop fields and moved to her own place. She was working then for $1.75 per hour - but she was stubborn and determined to be very independent! She held various jobs in the Fraser Valley, includ- ing one at the Coquilitsa Hospital at Sardis, then at Henry’s Meat Market. Joyce had developed a strong sense of self and was living with her sons as the independent woman she had wished to become. When she met Joe - life took on some changes afterward! “He was fun and haywire (we both were), and I loved him!”’ states Joyce matter-of-factly. The couple moved to Powell River in 1969. Joyce found employment with the B.C. Ferries, and Joe worked for McMillan Bloedel. “I had a good time in my job.” re- calls Joyce. ‘We'd pull pranks on one another, and the public - well that’s another story! Most of it’s not print- able, but I will tell you if you ask about a naked con- ventioneer and my rumble with a motorcycle gang!” By January, 1979, Joyce was mad at Joe, so she left him and moved north to Erickson. ‘We weren’t getting along - so good-bye Joe!” Joyce first worked for Iona Catering. ‘I had a ball!” says Joyce with her eyes twinkling and her proverbial elfish grin. Her son Wayne brought Joe up for a visit in 1980. ‘(He was gonna stay three months,” remembers Joyce, ‘“ and he’s still here!” Cont. on Page 15 Tere EEE ee EEE DE DEDEDE De De De De De De De De De De De De De ie ce es The ClothesCloset & Cassiar Hair Design \’ “Refreshments” served as you shop! Gift wrapping available for your convenience G hris tmas Corner of Kennedy and Connell ~- ~~ SCHOOLADVISORY ELECTION — - Elections were held recently to choose four new members to the School Advisory Council. The new members will each serve a two year term and attended their first meeting on Wednesday, October 14th. ; New members elected were: Claudia Huber, Ross Harper, Shirley Howard and Lois McGrail.- oa ee ee -s a \ et i ar Sar CLAUDIA HUBER SHIRLEY HOWARE ie RRC ASE, : See _ ROSS HARPER m LOIS McGRAIL Cassiar Courier November 1987 Page 15 , = Cont. from Page 14 . ; I asked Joyce how she ended up working in the mill at Erickson. ‘That happened because of a bet be- tween Dave Chapman and Roy Gould.” Apparently Chapman said that a woman could not do the work re- quired in the mill, (up on the grizzle breaking rock with a sixteen pound sledge hammer), Roy Gould bet on Joyce and won! : Joyce worked herself up to her present position as operator on the jig table. She credits her stubborn streak for her success. “I was tired,” she says, ‘but I did it be- cause nobody tells me I can’t do something, ’cause I’ll prove them wrong!” Joyce never missed a weekend going to town and having a ‘good time” in her early days. She still en- joys kicking up her heels. “I can’t go to a dance and sit still,”’ says Joyce, ‘I try to behave like a lady - but it doesn’t always work!” A couple of favorite memories Joyce shares with us concern the characters she has met. ‘While I was bull- cooking at Erickson, there was this one fellow who always wet his bed when he was drunk. Well, I got fed up - sol went to town and bought a rubber sheet for his bed. Well he begged me, ‘Please Joyce, I won’t do it anymore!’, but I stuck to my plan. He ended up sleeping on the floor in his room - then the problem was solved!” One evening in Cassiar, Joyce was out with a girl- friend in the Cassiar bar. Well this older “guy” called Nick was sweet on Joyce’s girlfriend and was determined to give her a ride home on his motor bike. Joyce didn’t think it was safe - and told the guy so. He was adamant - and defied Joyce - she kicked his bike right out from under him! “My friend comes home with me!” said Joyce, ‘I don’t know what happened to old Nick!” Joyce says she enjoys the life at Erickson, The people are interesting and friendly! She especially likes the socializing at the Christmas party and the Longest Day of the Year party. Joyce is a survivor of the Hinton train crash - the worst in Canadian history. It was a traumatic event, one she doesn’t like to discuss. She credits her ability to deal with life as it is because she takes it as it comes. However she realizes the decisions that she must make so that she can enjoy life! Joyce says she is irrepressable - there is no way she is prepared to accept life in a rocking chair - she likes to kick up her heels! 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