Over the Edge Jan 24, 1996 page 7 Lin In an emotional stupor the other day, I realized that a large majority of my columns have been quite negative. I pondered this for a bit and came to the realization that Iam likely in some ways a negative person. You know the beer is half empty instead of half full kinda thing. Reading some of the letters to the editor, I get the impression some of you may feel the same way. But don’t forget Iam a person just like you. If you cut me I bleed...but I am likely to cut you back. I can be charming...if I want to be. I can love...if you let me. AndI can | fight...if you push me. I am friendly and personable (ask anybody) but I am not docile and I like to confront things. It gets my rocks off to find injustice and expose it to the bone. And when I do this I do it well. But this week I am going to try something a little different. I have never trusted or Poison Pen accepted people in positions of authority. This is for several reasons but I guess the main two are: 1 Froma very young age (12) I decided that the only person that knew what was best for me, was me, and anyone who stood in my way was an obvious enemy. 2 From a very young age (8) persons in authority (teachers, principals, police, etc...) have lied to me, cheated me, harassed me, and generally done their best to make me fit some sort of an ideal they had in mind for me. I was expelled from every school I attended for the most part because I didn’t play the games certain people wanted me to play. I’ve watched police smack 15 year old kids around for what seemed like sheer enjoyment. And every time I had to deal with one of these so-called authority figures, they out and out lied. Sometimes it left me feeling as if I had been raped. Often times it just left me helpless. All of this led me to believe that the police and others in authority were evil people that should be avoided (if not covertly attacked). Recently however, events have proven me wrong (will wonders never cease). On two separate occasions, someone in authority not only treated me with the respect that I deserve but also gave me a break. In October, I was caught receiving something I shouldn’t (or at least, something the university thought I shouldn’t). Totally busted, with no way out but straight down the toilet. For this slight transgression, I was summoned to Tracy Thompson’s (head of security) office to be disciplined. I went in with an antagonistic attitude and was slightly rude. To my surprise, Tracy was very straight with me about the possible consequences of my actions. She never lied and she treated me in a fair and respectful manner. In fact, I would go so far as to say she was quite friendly. Well, needless to say, with a life’s experience of having people in these positions try to bury me, I was floored to be treated like something other than a long-haired punk. With this kind of leadership, it is no wonder that the security staff at UNBC is so efficient and respected. . The second occasion I was surprised at someone in authority actually being nice was a few weeks ago. A police officer pulled me over almost immediately after I left the pub. He asked how many beers I had drank, to which I replied, “oh, just one.” (Ya right, just one.) Well, I wasn’t totally drunk or anything, but had he used a breathalyzer I very well could have been over the limit. Instead of acting like some jack booted thug, the officer was polite and respectful. He then said, “Why don’t you just park the car and I will call you a cab.” Ian Lorenz Shocked again! Not only was he not harassing me or lecturing me, but he was actually going out of his way not to screw up my life even though at that point it would have been quite easy for him to do. I told him I thought parking the car was a fabulous idea and “thank you so much”. After which he let me pet his police dog. I have to say BRAVO to both Tracy Thompson and the nameless police officer who showed me that not all people in authority behave like little dictators or spineless betrayers. Every now and then it is good to be proven wrong. It is people like these that are most effective when dealing with real criminals and out-of- control situations because they have earned the respect of those around them. People in authority who don’t give respect and compassion get none in return, making their job infinitely harder...just ask my high school principal. THEATRE NORTH WEST PROUDLY PRESENTS... | OLEANNA David Mamet's controversial play about a college professor accused by one of his students of sexual harrassment. Is he perpetrator or victim? Directed by Theatre North West's Artistic Director Ted Price and starring Canadian Actors' Equity members Michelle Porter and Don Thompson, this performance is to be one of the best in Prince George. Performances are scheduled to run from Monday through Saturday January 24 - February 3 at 8 PM in Theatre North West's Parkhill Center Theatre. Tickets for Oleanna are available at Mosquito Books or Studio 2880. To order by phone call 563-2880. Student and Seniors $14.50 weeknights/$16.50 weekends; Adults $16.50 weeknights/$18.50 weekends.