8 over THE EDGE - Wednesday, December 14 , 1994 atts Montreal Remembered? T? by Dale Bowyer On Decheatict 6 Th., students gathered in | the Winter Garden to pay their respects to the female Victims of the 1989 — Montreal Massacre. The memorial service consisted of speeches, poetry readings and music. It had a sobering effect on the crowd, and reinforced that violence of any kind, especially to’ women, is wrong. The tragedy of that night can not be deemed an isolated incident. It is a magnification of what is happening to women all the time. The question of — whether Marc Lepine’s actions are reflective of the rest of the men in our society remains § unanswered. Violence is not justifiable in any circumstance. We can not excuse Marc Lepine’s action by saying he was mad. His message left too lucid ‘ and clear a message for that of a mad man. Prior to the memorial service, there was a video presentation entitled After . the Montreal Massacre. ' The video showed the effect of the massacre, and why it is important for us to remember. The tragedy brought to the surface all the little acts of violence to which no woman is immune. This is especially the case with university women. Every woman on a college or university campus can identify with Marc Lepine’s victims. It is obvious that society is more brutal, that the risk of violence is greater, and that women have more reasons to be afraid. So where does this leave us? What does come after the Montreal massacre? The statistics are not pleasant. One in every four women will be assaulted in their life time (half of those before: age 17). One million women in- Canada will be abused by their husband or intimate partner this year. Violence toward women is the leading cause of death to women world wide. Something has to be done to change this . and quick. Unfortunately it takes morte than women wanting change. Men have to want it just as much. Men and women must work together in order to change society’s attitudes towards women. Small «things like wearing a white ribbon to support the fight against misogyny are a step in the right direction. It is to be hoped that the tragedy of December 6, 1989, will serve as a reminder of why we can never give up this fight. SZ